Alliteration makes me happy- so get ready! It has come to my attention that girls are complicating, conflicting, and confusing so often that they are just as complex (and cantankerously carnaptious) as everyone thinks them to be. Girls can be a conundrum of care and concern: and all I’m trying to say through the use of these c’s, is that girls have so many categories that classify their characters. We have the dreamers and the schemers, the concise and the chatty, the catty and the compassionate.
It isn’t my intention to stereotype all girls, but it has come to my attention that I have been a dreamer for so long that I forgot that girls can be so pernicious to one another because of their own insecurities. As of late I’ve had some issues with mean girls (which is why this post is about girls but it applies to everyone)- the type that cut you down and crush you because they have issues with who they are so you are the easier target. Confident girls get questioned by those who lack confidence; it’s natural, but why? I’ll admit I can be incredibly confident about a vast array of different things, but I’ll always be a little insecure about my body, and sometimes my craziness. As I get older and more comfortable with my flaws I won’t see this is a problem, but right now this is a personal dilemma I have to work through. I am not perfect, I worry about love and appearances just as much as anyone, but I also have to trust that things are going to work out. There may be someone out there that will love my imperfections as much as they love my strengths. After all, that’s love right?
So why do girls have to question that? If you don’t like the way YOU look, change it but don’t bash other girls for how they look- how does that help anyone? If you don’t think you’re as smart as you like- go out and learn, but don’t question another girl’s intelligence- who are you to do that? If you have trust issues- don’t question another girl’s trust. There is so much to every story, and believe me, we never know all the details unless it is our own story. We have to stop judging each other, and turn that eye on the things we don’t like about ourselves. Either learn to accept yourself the way you are, or try your best to change the things you want to.
Life is a series of struggles and successes with little moments of serenity in between.There is no right time to to hurt someone else, yet there is always a right time to love yourself and others. Love adds to life, hurt subtracts, do the math and utilize the time you have the best way you can, life is worth it.
P.S. Doesn’t that cupcake look cute and lively? See I could have put a serene life pic there, but then cupcakes are so much happier. Just saying.